August 29, 2016

Summer will soon be over. It seemed to happen late. It seemed to happen fast. It seemed to happen before i even knew it had happened. It seemed to happen like a tornado, but a most wonderful kind.

Things are great in the land of AJ. I finally got my east coast bestie o...

August 3, 2016

It's feeling a bit like summer just started and now it's starting to wind down. But mine has really lovely. When life it's good. it's really good.I already get to experience such wonderful intimacies with interesting, diverse people. Having regular touch and sex in my...

July 11, 2016

Again this year I packed myself up and took myself to Oregon Country Fair. And once again, what a wonderful experience. Only my 2nd time, I'm coming to understand why it ends up being so special to so many folks, and they keep coming back year after year.

As soon as you...

June 15, 2016

That sounds about right, eh? Summer seems to have snuck up on me - perhaps while I was away. But I find myself making plans for August already and that - while being a wonderful thing to have events and visiting friends to look forward to - also makes me think I need t...

May 1, 2016

Happy May Day from Amsterdam! It's the last night of my holidays and I'm tucked in bed with the windows wide open onto the street at almost 10pm with an early flight tomorrow. I had the time of my life and it was as challenging as it was exciting. I can't wait to trave...

April 13, 2016

Since I was young, I have dreamed of a life that included world travel. Europe was generally the target of my fantasy - Greece (thanks to the film Shirley Valentine), Italy, France and Spain. When the time came and I was finally considering the reality of travel, I re-...

March 8, 2016

Superbly timed, I'm finally updating my blog and it's International Women's Day. I spent a few days last week at the Seattle SASS Symposium. A conference for sex workers and their supporters. It was a small but amazing group of women (and a few men) who work hard, put...

January 8, 2016

With an attitude like that, how can I go wrong, right?

A mellow and quiet year thus far. Ringing in the New Year with friends. I am very blessed when it comes to having this group of friends, and it's been a long while in the making. But there is always warmth and love...

December 14, 2015

An old friend of the family when I was a little girl was a gentleman names Jim who wrote for a livig and occasionally wrote articles for the New Yorker. He was a lovely and amazing man. So smart, so sweet, so very sad and damaged too. I hope he knew how much he and his...

November 19, 2015

That's what I've considered calling my book should I ever write it. But for now let's concentrate on the zen part. I'm scheduled to partake in a 10-day meditation retreat in Vipassana in January. I wont try to explain it as I'm good only with my own words. So find info...

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